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Stanislaus Hayden

Male 1772 - 1839  (67 years)


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  • Name Stanislaus Hayden 
    Born 7 Feb 1772  St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2, 3, 4
    Gender Male 
    Died 5 Dec 1839  Bardstown, Nelson, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location  [2, 5
    Buried St. Joseph's Cemetery, Bardstown, Nelson, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location  [2
    Person ID I10133  Ancestry of PNH, TNH, and others
    Last Modified 9 Oct 2020 

    Father Basil Hayden,   b. 2 Jan 1744, St. Andrew's Parish, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Between 21 Jun 1804 and 6 Aug 1804  (Age 60 years) 
    Mother Henrietta Cole,   b. 2 Jul 1754, St. Mary's, St. Mary's, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 6 Dec 1837, Marion County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 83 years) 
    Married Bef 1771  St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this location  [3, 6
    Family ID F974  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Henrietta Hilton,   d. Bef 1834 
    Married 9 Aug 1791  Nelson County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location  [3, 7
    Children 
     1. Mary Hayden,   b. Nelson County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Birmingham, Jefferson, Alabama Find all individuals with events at this location
     2. Felix H. Hayden,   d. New Orleans, Jefferson, Louisiana Find all individuals with events at this location
     3. Lucretia Hayden,   b. 1793
     4. Julia Ann Hayden,   b. 1795, Nelson County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 22 Mar 1843  (Age 48 years)
     5. Elizabeth Fidelia Hayden,   b. Abt 1798, Nelson County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 20 Nov 1860  (Age ~ 62 years)
    +6. Mildred "Millie" Hayden,   b. 31 Dec 1804, Nelson County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 11 Oct 1859  (Age 54 years)
    +7. Susanna Hayden,   b. 30 Apr 1809, Nelson County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 8 Nov 1888  (Age 79 years)
    Last Modified 10 Oct 2020 
    Family ID F7504  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 2 Susanna Overstreet Walker 
    Married 14 Jan 1834  [3
    Last Modified 9 Oct 2020 
    Family ID F4442  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Notes 
    • Sharon J. Doliante (citation details below) says that he married, first, Henrietta Hilton, then Mary Carlin, then Mary Rapier. Sister Mary Louise Donnelly (citation details below) is not frequently more right than Doliante, but in this case she appears to be correct: Mary Carlin was the wife of Stanislaus' next-younger brother Robert. She predeceased Robert, and when he made his will, he named his older brother Stanislaus his executor and the caretaker of his children. Mary Rapier was the wife of Basil Hayden, Jr., the third son of Basil Hayden and Henrietta Cole. Basil Jr. died in 1833 and his wife died in 1838. This leaves a narrow window in which Mary Rapier could have married Stanislaus (leaving aside that this would be wildly unlikely behavior in such a Catholic family), but no actual evidence suggests that this was the case. In fact Stanislaus Hayden married, first, Henrietta Hilton, the mother of his children; and second, on 14 Jan 1834, Susanna Overstreet Walker, who survived him and inherited a third of his estate.

      "STANISLAUS HAYDEN was to be court martialed in Springfield, Kentucky on 8/2/1794 as a militia delinquent. BASIL HAYDEN, SR., BASIL HAYDEN, JR. and A. Brown spoke on his behalf. BASIL HAYDEN, SR. said 'his son from his infancy has been deficient in his hearing,'…and should be exempted. The other witnesses gave the same declaration. After mature deliberations the court was of the opinion he should be fined thirty seven shillings and six pence. On 6/16/1798 STANISLAUS HAYDEN appeared and requested to have his name cleared, 'whereupon the Court ordered that he be cleared.'" [John Medley (1615-1660), citation details below]

  • Sources 
    1. [S82] Maryland and Virginia Colonials: Genealogies of Some Colonial Families by Sharon J. Doliante. Baltimore: Genealogical Publishing Company, Maryland, 1991., date only.

    2. [S258] Hayden/Rapier and Allied Families: Colonial Maryland, Kentucky, U.S.A. by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: MLD Genealogy Company, 1991.

    3. [S312] John Medley (1615-1660), St. Mary's County Maryland, His Descendants, by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: Mary Louise Donnelly, 1995.

    4. [S314] Bible records of Basil Hayden (Basil Robert Hayden, 1774-1833), Kentucky Genealogical Records Book, GRC Book Series 1, volume 319, pp. 84-87.

    5. [S312] John Medley (1615-1660), St. Mary's County Maryland, His Descendants, by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: Mary Louise Donnelly, 1995., date only.

    6. [S3401] Paul Nordberg, "Eleanor Cole of St. Mary's County, Maryland.".

    7. [S258] Hayden/Rapier and Allied Families: Colonial Maryland, Kentucky, U.S.A. by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: MLD Genealogy Company, 1991., says 5 Aug 1791.