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Henrietta Cole

Female 1754 - 1837  (83 years)


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  • Name Henrietta Cole 
    Birth 2 Jul 1754  St. Mary's, St. Mary's, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7
    Gender Female 
    Death 6 Dec 1837  Marion County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location  [4, 8, 9, 10
    Burial Holy Cross Cemetery, Holy Cross, Marion, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    Siblings 2 siblings 
    Person ID I155  Ancestry of PNH, TNH, and others | Ancestor of PNH
    Last Modified 2 Jan 2022 

    Father Robert Cole,   b. Abt 1710, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Bef 2 Dec 1771, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this location (Age ~ 61 years) 
    Mother Ann Greenwell,   b. Abt 1730, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Bef 1771 (Age ~ 40 years) 
    Marriage Bef 1743  [5, 11
    Family ID F4803  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Basil Hayden,   b. 2 Jan 1744, St. Andrew's Parish, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Between 21 Jun 1804 and 6 Aug 1804 (Age 60 years) 
    Marriage Bef 1771  St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this location  [2, 5, 6
    Children 
    +1. Stanislaus Hayden,   b. 7 Feb 1772, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 5 Dec 1839, Bardstown, Nelson, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 67 years)
    +2. Robert Hayden,   b. 20 Feb 1773, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Between 20 Aug 1806 and 3 Nov 1806 (Age 33 years)
    +3. Basil Hayden,   b. 7 Aug 1774, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 20 Jul 1833, Washington County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 58 years)
     4. Ann Hayden,   b. 13 Nov 1776, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Aft 1860 (Age > 85 years)
     5. John Baptist Hayden,   b. 6 Apr 1779, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1785, En route to Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 5 years)
     6. Joseph Hayden,   b. Sep 1781, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1785, En route to Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age ~ 3 years)
     7. Eleanor Hayden,   b. Mar 1782, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 25 Feb 1803, Calvary, Marion, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age ~ 20 years)
     8. Teresa Hayden,   b. Dec 1782, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1785, En route to Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age ~ 2 years)
     9. John Hayden,   b. 16 Feb 1784, St. Mary's County, Maryland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1785, En route to Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 0 years)
    +10. Teresa Hayden,   b. 30 Mar 1788, Nelson County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Aft 1850 (Age > 63 years)
     11. Hillery Hayden,   b. 1792, Washington County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1792, Washington County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 0 years)
     12. Louis Hayden,   b. 21 Jul 1792   d. Aft 21 Jul 1792 (Age > 0 years)
     13. Edward Hayden,   b. 7 Nov 1795, Washington County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location
    +14. Lewis Hayden,   b. 20 Aug 1796, Washington County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1849, Bardstown, Nelson, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 52 years)
     15. Alexander Hayden,   b. 5 Mar 1798, Washington County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1804 (Age 5 years)
    Family ID F974  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 11 Jun 2021 

    Family 2 Charles Ewing,   b. Between 1750 and 1753   d. Aft 3 Feb 1808 (Age ~ 58 years) 
    Marriage 19 Feb 1805  Springfield, Washington, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location  [12, 13, 14, 15
    Divorce 3 Feb 1808  Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location  [16, 17
    Children 
    +1. William Leo "Little Willie" Hayden,   b. 16 Dec 1785, Washington County, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 6 Dec 1867, Owensboro, Daviess, Kentucky Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 81 years)
    Family ID F4311  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 2 Jan 2022 

  • Notes 
    • See the notes for her son William Leo Hayden for the story of William Leo's birth and of Henrietta Cole's complicated relationship with Charles Ewing.

      From Abstract of Early Kentucky Wills and Inventories: Copied from Original and Recorded Wills and Inventories by Junie Estelle Stewart King (Baltimore: Genealogical Publishing Company, 2010):

      HAYDEN, HENRIETTA. "To worshipful Court of Washington County, I, Henrietta Hayden of said county do hereby declare that I will not take or accept the provision made for me by Will of my late husband, Basil Hayden, dec'd., or any part thereof and I do hereby renounce all Benefit which I might claim by said Will, and I hereby claim Dower as the law directs. As witness my hand and seal this 9 day of February, 1805. Wit: William Hayden, Lewis Hayden." Recorded April Court, 1805.

  • Sources 
    1. [S258] Hayden/Rapier and Allied Families: Colonial Maryland, Kentucky, U.S.A. by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: MLD Genealogy Company, 1991.

    2. [S312] John Medley (1615-1660), St. Mary's County Maryland, His Descendants, by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: Mary Louise Donnelly, 1995.

    3. [S314] Bible records of Leo Hayden (1807-1844), Kentucky Genealogical Records Book, GRC Book Series 1, volume 319, pp. 84-87.

    4. [S1066] Findagrave.com page for Henrietta Cole Hayden.

    5. [S3401] Paul Nordberg, "Eleanor Cole of St. Mary's County, Maryland.".

    6. [S5871] Paul Nordberg, "Joseph and Eleanor (Cole) Clayton of Nelson County, Kentucky.".

    7. [S6184] Alicia (Ewing) Towster, "Charles and Robert Ewing: Part II -- Charles Ewing." Ewing Family Journal 20:20, Nov 2014., year only.

    8. [S3401] Paul Nordberg, "Eleanor Cole of St. Mary's County, Maryland.", year only.

    9. [S4514] The Centenary of Catholicity in Kentucky by Ben J. Webb. Louisville, Kentucky: Charles A. Rogers, 1884., year only.

    10. [S5871] Paul Nordberg, "Joseph and Eleanor (Cole) Clayton of Nelson County, Kentucky.", year only.

    11. [S138] St. Mary's Families, compiled by Linda Reno. Original site is gone. Mirrors: Marriages 1638-1820. Migration from Maryland 1780-1820. Tract Map: 1705., says "bef. 1708".

    12. [S10] Kentucky Marriages, 1802-1850, compiled by Jordan Dodd, on ancestry.com.

    13. [S1290] 100 Years of Marriages, 1792-1892: Washington County, Kentucky by Phyllis Brown. Kentucky Kindred Genealogical Research, 2012.

    14. [S258] Hayden/Rapier and Allied Families: Colonial Maryland, Kentucky, U.S.A. by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: MLD Genealogy Company, 1991., says 2 Feb 1805.

    15. [S6184] Alicia (Ewing) Towster, "Charles and Robert Ewing: Part II -- Charles Ewing." Ewing Family Journal 20:20, Nov 2014., says 14 Feb 1805.

    16. [S3496] Littel's Laws of Kentucky, volume 3.

    17. [S6184] Alicia (Ewing) Towster, "Charles and Robert Ewing: Part II -- Charles Ewing." Ewing Family Journal 20:20, Nov 2014.