Nielsen Hayden genealogy
Stanislaus Hayden
1772 - 1839 (67 years)-
Name Stanislaus Hayden Birth 7 Feb 1772 St. Mary's County, Maryland 
[1, 2, 3, 4] Gender Male Death 5 Dec 1839 Bardstown, Nelson, Kentucky [2, 5] Burial St. Joseph's Cemetery, Bardstown, Nelson, Kentucky [2] 
Siblings14 siblings Person ID I10133 Ancestry of PNH, TNH, and others Last Modified 9 Oct 2020
Father Basil Hayden, b. 2 Jan 1744, St. Andrew's Parish, St. Mary's County, Maryland d. Between 21 Jun 1804 and 6 Aug 1804 (Age 60 years) Mother Henrietta Cole, b. 2 Jul 1754, St. Mary's, St. Mary's, Maryland d. 6 Dec 1837, Marion County, Kentucky (Age 83 years) Marriage Bef 1771 St. Mary's County, Maryland [3, 6, 7] Family ID F974 Group Sheet | Family Chart
Family 1 Henrietta Hilton d. Bef 1834 Marriage 9 Aug 1791 Nelson County, Kentucky [3, 8] Children 1. Mary Hayden, b. Nelson County, Kentucky d. Birmingham, Jefferson, Alabama 2. Felix H. Hayden d. New Orleans, Orleans, Louisiana 3. Lucretia Hayden, b. 1793 4. Julia Ann Hayden, b. 1795, Nelson County, Kentucky d. 22 Mar 1843 (Age 48 years)5. Elizabeth Fidelia Hayden, b. Abt 1798, Nelson County, Kentucky d. 20 Nov 1860 (Age ~ 62 years)+ 6. Mildred "Millie" Hayden, b. 31 Dec 1804, Nelson County, Kentucky d. 11 Oct 1859 (Age 54 years)+ 7. Susanna Hayden, b. 30 Apr 1809, Nelson County, Kentucky d. 8 Nov 1888 (Age 79 years)Family ID F7504 Group Sheet | Family Chart Last Modified 10 Oct 2020
Family 2 Susanna Overstreet Walker Marriage 14 Jan 1834 [3] Family ID F4442 Group Sheet | Family Chart Last Modified 9 Oct 2020
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Notes - Sharon J. Doliante (citation details below) says that he married, first, Henrietta Hilton, then Mary Carlin, then Mary Rapier. Sister Mary Louise Donnelly (citation details below) is not frequently more right than Doliante, but in this case she appears to be correct: Mary Carlin was the wife of Stanislaus' next-younger brother Robert. She predeceased Robert, and when he made his will, he named his older brother Stanislaus his executor and the caretaker of his children. Mary Rapier was the wife of Basil Hayden, Jr., the third son of Basil Hayden and Henrietta Cole. Basil Jr. died in 1833 and his wife died in 1838. This leaves a narrow window in which Mary Rapier could have married Stanislaus (leaving aside that this would be wildly unlikely behavior in such a Catholic family), but no actual evidence suggests that this was the case. In fact Stanislaus Hayden married, first, Henrietta Hilton, the mother of his children; and second, on 14 Jan 1834, Susanna Overstreet Walker, who survived him and inherited a third of his estate.
"STANISLAUS HAYDEN was to be court martialed in Springfield, Kentucky on 8/2/1794 as a militia delinquent. BASIL HAYDEN, SR., BASIL HAYDEN, JR. and A. Brown spoke on his behalf. BASIL HAYDEN, SR. said 'his son from his infancy has been deficient in his hearing,'…and should be exempted. The other witnesses gave the same declaration. After mature deliberations the court was of the opinion he should be fined thirty seven shillings and six pence. On 6/16/1798 STANISLAUS HAYDEN appeared and requested to have his name cleared, 'whereupon the Court ordered that he be cleared.'" [John Medley (1615-1660), citation details below]
- Sharon J. Doliante (citation details below) says that he married, first, Henrietta Hilton, then Mary Carlin, then Mary Rapier. Sister Mary Louise Donnelly (citation details below) is not frequently more right than Doliante, but in this case she appears to be correct: Mary Carlin was the wife of Stanislaus' next-younger brother Robert. She predeceased Robert, and when he made his will, he named his older brother Stanislaus his executor and the caretaker of his children. Mary Rapier was the wife of Basil Hayden, Jr., the third son of Basil Hayden and Henrietta Cole. Basil Jr. died in 1833 and his wife died in 1838. This leaves a narrow window in which Mary Rapier could have married Stanislaus (leaving aside that this would be wildly unlikely behavior in such a Catholic family), but no actual evidence suggests that this was the case. In fact Stanislaus Hayden married, first, Henrietta Hilton, the mother of his children; and second, on 14 Jan 1834, Susanna Overstreet Walker, who survived him and inherited a third of his estate.
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Sources - [S82] Maryland and Virginia Colonials: Genealogies of Some Colonial Families by Sharon J. Doliante. Baltimore: Genealogical Publishing Company, Maryland, 1991., date only.
- [S258] Hayden/Rapier and Allied Families: Colonial Maryland, Kentucky, U.S.A. by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: MLD Genealogy Company, 1991.
- [S312] John Medley (1615-1660), St. Mary's County Maryland, His Descendants, by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: Mary Louise Donnelly, 1995.
- [S314] Bible records of Leo Hayden (1807-1844), Kentucky Genealogical Records Book, GRC Book Series 1, volume 319, pp. 84-87.
- [S312] John Medley (1615-1660), St. Mary's County Maryland, His Descendants, by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: Mary Louise Donnelly, 1995., date only.
- [S3401] Paul Nordberg, "Eleanor Cole of St. Mary's County, Maryland.".
- [S5871] Paul Nordberg, "Joseph and Eleanor (Cole) Clayton of Nelson County, Kentucky.".
- [S258] Hayden/Rapier and Allied Families: Colonial Maryland, Kentucky, U.S.A. by Mary Louise Donnelly. Ennis, Texas: MLD Genealogy Company, 1991., says 5 Aug 1791.
- [S82] Maryland and Virginia Colonials: Genealogies of Some Colonial Families by Sharon J. Doliante. Baltimore: Genealogical Publishing Company, Maryland, 1991., date only.