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Mary Coffin

Female 1645 - 1717  (72 years)


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  • Name Mary Coffin  [1, 2, 3
    Birth 20 Feb 1645  Haverhill, Essex, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location  [4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9
    Gender Female 
    Death 13 Nov 1717  Nantucket, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location  [4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9
    Burial Friends Burying Ground, Nantucket, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location  [5
    Siblings 4 siblings 
    Person ID I13182  Ancestry of PNH, TNH, and others | Ancestor of JTS, Ancestor of LDN
    Last Modified 30 Jan 2024 

    Father Tristram Coffin, Governor of Nantucket,   b. Bef 11 Mar 1610   d. 3 Oct 1681, Nantucket, New York Find all individuals with events at this location (Age > 71 years) 
    Mother Dionis Stevens,   b. Bef 4 Mar 1610, Brixton, Devon, England Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Aft 29 Nov 1681, Nantucket, New York Find all individuals with events at this location (Age > 71 years) 
    Marriage Between 16 Dec 1627 and 18 Jul 1630  Brixton, Devon, England Find all individuals with events at this location  [10
    Family ID F6298  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Nathaniel Starbuck,   b. Abt 1635   d. 6 Aug 1719, Nantucket, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age ~ 84 years) 
    Marriage Bef 30 Mar 1663  [6
    Children 
    +1. Mary Starbuck,   b. 30 Mar 1663, Nantucket, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Aft 12 Sep 1696 (Age > 33 years)
    +2. Jethro Starbuck,   b. 14 Dec 1671   d. 12 Aug 1770, Nantucket, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 98 years)
    Family ID F8221  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 2 Apr 2020 

  • Notes 
    • From Alison M. Gavin, "A Tale of Two Women: Seventeenth-Century Coffin and Starbuck Matriarchs", citation details below:

      Tristram and Dionis's daughter Mary Coffin Starbuck undertook first alone, and later with her eldest son Nathaniel, a number of commercial ventures, including a country store, extensive land trading, and investment in the nascent Nantucket whaling industry. Mary not only knew how to read and write; she also mastered Latin and Greek, and was "well read in the Scriptures." Despite the fact that children growing up in the Bay Colony were required to attend school, Mary's level of education would have been unusual. The ability to read and write classical languages was usually a skill possessed only by young men studying for the ministry at Harvard College. All sources point to Mary being precocious and charismatic.

      From Noyes-Gilman Ancestry, citation details below:

      She was a remarkable woman, and in the language of a preacher of the day, "The Islanders esteemed her as a judge among them, for little of moment was done without her." She attended town meetings and took part in the debates, usually beginning "my husband thinks" so-and-so, or "my husband and I, having considered the matter, think" so-and-so; in 1701 she became a Quaker, and was distinguished as a teacher.

  • Sources 
    1. [S2272] Vital records of Nantucket, Massachusetts to the year 1850. Boston, Massachusetts: New England Historic Genealogical Society, 1925-1928. Also online here and here.

    2. [S3420] Thomas Gardner, Planter, and Some of His Descendants by Frank A. Gardner. Salem, Massachusetts: Essex Institute, 1907.

    3. [S3449] New Englanders in Nova Scotia, manuscript and collection of articles and research material, including articles written by Fred E. Crowell in the 1920s and 30s for the Yarmouth Herald, and also Crowell's research notes. R. Stanton Avery Special Collections, New England Historic Genealogical Society. Searchable at americanancestors.org.

    4. [S544] Noyes-Gilman Ancestry: Being a Series of Sketches, with a Chart of the Ancestors of Charles Phelps Noyes and Emily H. (Gilman) Noyes, His Wife by Charles Phelps Noyes. St. Paul, Minnesota, 1907.

    5. [S630] Ancestry of Charles Stinson Pillsbury and John Sargent Pillsbury by Mary Lovering Holman. Concord, New Hampshire: The Rumford Press, 1938.

    6. [S756] Early New England Families Study Project: Accounts of New England Families from 1641 to 1700 by Alicia Crane Williams. Online database, New England Historic Genealogical Society.

    7. [S1562] The History of Nantucket, County, Island, and Town, Including Genealogies of First Settlers, by Alexander Starbuck. Boston: C. E. Goodspeed & Co., 1924.

    8. [S1568] Alison M. Gavin, "A Tale of Two Women: Seventeenth-Century Coffin and Starbuck Matriarchs." New England Ancestors 9.4, Fall 2008, p. 21.

    9. [S5882] Ancestral Lines from Maine to North Carolina by Carl Boyer III. Santa Clarita, California, 2015.

    10. [S756] Early New England Families Study Project: Accounts of New England Families from 1641 to 1700 by Alicia Crane Williams. Online database, New England Historic Genealogical Society., says "Probably at Brixton".